Shiny, happy and homeschooled: the Duggar family and the need to regulate homeschooling

After its premiere on June 2 on Amazon Prime Video, Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets, reached more viewers in its first nine days than any other Amazon docuseries. The series exposes the fundamental moral corruption underlying the Duggar family, the subject of TLC’s long-running reality series, 19 Kids and Counting, as well a spinoff entitled Counting On. The Amazon series reveals the Duggar family involvement with a fundamentalist Christian movement that endorsed physical child abuse, sanctioned educational neglect, and created a culture of sexual abuse of women and girls. One issue that was not discussed in the series is the key role that unregulated homeschooling plays in allowing the abuse and exploitation of children like the Duggars to occur and persist.

For someone who was hardly aware of the Duggars and their reality-shows empire, Shiny Happy People was a revelation. I learned that the Duggers were the poster children for an organization called the Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP), which was formed in the 1960s by a minister named Bill Gothard in reaction to the civil rights, women’s rights, and student protest movements, and to the cultural changes of the period. The first principle of IBLP was “Authority.” Just as God was the ultimate authority over mankind, so did IBLP preach the father’s ultimate authority over his family. Girls remained under the authority of their fathers until they transitioned by arranged marriage to the authority of their husbands.

To reinforce its authority, IBLP preached (and the Duggars used) physical punishment starting from infancy. As babies, the Duggar children were subjected to “blanket training,” promoted by the book To Train Up a Child, which is popular in Christian homeschooling circles. Babies are shown a desirable object, told not to touch it, and hit every time they reach for it. The point is to teach obedience. The survivors interviewed for the series spoke of receiving physical punishment for just about any transgression, no matter how minor.

In 1984, IBLP published a home-schooling curriculum consisting of “wisdom booklets” based on the Bible, which was marketed as an academic curriculum but according to survivors contained little if any actual education. Children learned that all fossils were created by God at the same time and that the rhythm of rock music could be traced to satanic ritual; girls were taught to identify what items of female clothing are provocative and should be avoided. It’s not surprising that many survivors spoke of struggling financially after leaving home without preparation for further education or work beyond the minimum wage level.

The children of IBLP families were brought up with frightening visions of hell and taught to constantly examine their own thoughts for evidence of sin, especially the sin of lust. This practice may have backfired. Survivors interviewed for the series reported that IBLP families were rife with sexual abuse. It was eldest son Josh Duggar’s admitted abuse of his sisters among other girls that put an end to the long running series, 19 Children and Counting. It was replaced by a new series called Counting On, which focused on some of the family’s daughters, but that show in turn was suspended after Josh Duggar was arrested for receipt and possession of child pornography. He is now serving 12.5 years in prison.

IBLP is not the only Christian home schooling movement that promotes physical punishment and educational neglect. The Revolt of the Christian Home-Schoolers, a brilliant article by Peter Jamison in the Washington Post, tells the story of Christina and Aaron Beall, who were brought up in families that were both active in a religious community led by Gary Cox, an evangelical pastor and pioneer of Maryland’s home-schooling movement. (Cox’s son later ran for Governor of Maryland and lost in a landslide to Wes Moore.) Christina and Aaron could not bear to watch their children grow up the way they did – in fear of being beaten several times a week. They rejected corporal punishment for their four children and eventually decided to send them to public school.

Christina and Aaron’s children were lucky. But states’ policies toward homeschooling provide little protection for those who need it, like the Duggar children. The Amazon series did not address the policy context of the abuses suffered by the Duggars and all the other children brought up in IBLP and similar movements, or how future children in these environments could be protected. As Eve Ettinger, the oldest of nine children homeschooled in a fundamentalist Christian home, explains in Salon Magazine, it is the failure of states to meaningfully regulate homeschooling that allows abuse and neglect to take place in these homes.

Before continuing, it is important to note that It is not just fundamentalist Christians who homeschool. Homeschoolers include Black parents who wish to avoid racism in the public schools, parents of elite athletes or musicians whose schedule does not allow for attendance at regular schools, and other parents who simply want to have more input into their children’s education than the public schools allow. And most of these parents are no doubt well-meaning and provide an excellent education. But when homeschooling parents abuse or neglect their children, the protections provided to other students are not available.

According to the Coalition for Responsible Home Education (CRHE), an advocacy group started by homeschool alumni, 11 states require nothing of homeschooling parents, not even notification to the school district when they begin homeschooling. Another 16 states require only that parents who intend to homeschool give notice to state or local officials. The remaining states have some combination of requirements for subjects covered, hours of schooling, academic assessments, parent qualifications, or other provisions. Only nine states require academic assessments that are meaningful because they must be submitted to the government or require a certain level of achievement. Only 11 states require any qualifications (usually a high school degree or GED) for parents who want to homeschool their children, and only two states conduct background checks for parents who want to homeschool their children. Of those two states, Pennsylvania prohibits homeschooling if a parent or other adult in the household has been convicted of any of a range of offenses. Arkansas prohibits homeschooling if a registered sex offender lives in the household, but parents may petition the sentencing court to have this restriction waived. No state provides for monitoring of parents who begin to homeschool during or after a child protective services investigation, or for those with histories of child welfare involvement. Such provisions have been introduced in several states but have failed to become law due to opposition from the homeschool lobby. Shockingly, no state requires that a state employee or contractor ever set eyes on the child once homeschooling is approved.¹

The lack of meaningful standards and monitoring of home education opens the door for educational neglect by parents who reject the importance of anything but a biblical education. Such educational neglect was described eloquently by many survivors in the Amazon series, who reported that their learning outside of religious principles was minimal and that they spent most of their time doing chores and caring for their younger siblings. Such children “graduate” from home schools without the knowledge and skills necessary to thrive in American society. A 2013 article in the Washington Post described one Virginia student’s struggle to fill the gaps in his home education. This determined young man needed several years of remedial education and other courses at the local community college before he could fulfill his dream of attending a four-year-college.

Even worse, the lack of contact with educational staff isolates homeschooled children from adults outside their families, churches, and fundamentalist homeschooling circles, leaving them particularly vulnerable to long-term maltreatment. Teachers and other school staff have traditionally been the most common reporters of child abuse and neglect.² When a child is being abused or neglected at home, it is teachers and others at school who see the bruises or the hunger. If the child does not go to school, that extra set of eyes is missing; there remains only the hope that a doctor or other professional (if the child is lucky enough to see one) will notice something is wrong. The importance of educators as mandatory reporters was illustrated in a chilling manner by the Connecticut Office of the Child Advocate, which found that of children withdrawn from public schools to be homeschooled between 2013 and 2016, 36 percent had at least one prior accepted report for suspected abuse or neglect to the Department of Children’s Services, and the majority of these families had multiple prior reports for suspected maltreatment. So it is not surprising that a disproportionate number of the horrific abuse deaths that make the news (such as the Hart children, Natalie Finn in Iowa, Matthew Tirado in Connecticut and Adrian Jones in Kansas), involved parents who hid their abuse behind the guise of homeschooling, even though schooling rarely took place in these homes.

Before the 1980’s, homeschooling was not even addressed in state laws. The first achievement of the new homeschooling movement was the legalization of homeschooling in the 1980s and early 1990s in every state, as described by Milton Gaither in his history of American homeschooling. This came about thanks to the work of the Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLADA) and allied groups. Since that time, HSLADA and state-level homeschool lobbies have often been successful in getting legislatures to strike requirements that were included in the original legislation. For example In Virginia, homeschool groups succeeded in removing the requirement that homeschooling parents have a bachelor’s degree, replacing it with the lower requirement of a high school degree or GED. In Arizona, the requirements that parents pass a proficiency exam and that students take annual standardized tests were both removed, and the new requirement that parents have a high school diploma or GED was later removed. In Iowa, homeschooling was completely deregulated in 2013.

Homeschool lobbies have also been successful at thwarting attempts to add regulations to protect children, some of which were inspired by egregious instances of abuse. After the 13 Turpin children and young adults were found imprisoned (some chained to their beds) and emaciated in their home in California, a horrified public learned that their parents had elected to homeschool as an individual private school, an option available in that state. California Assemblyman Jose Medina introduced a bill that would require a fire inspection for all private schools, regardless of size.³ Due to a massive outcry from the homeschooling community, the inspection requirement was eliminated, leaving a bill that required nothing but identification of homeschooling families by name and address. When the eviscerated bill was scheduled for a hearing, hundreds or perhaps thousands of homeschooling families poured into the capitol building, testifying for three hours. No committee member even moved to approve the bill, and it died that day.

The Covid-19 pandemic resulted in a jump in homeschooling enrollment which has not yet subsided. There has been an estimated 30 percent rise in homeschooling enrollment since the beginning of the 2019 school year. This increasing trend makes the need for regulation of homeschooling more urgent. CRHE’s recommendations for protection of at-risk children include prohibiting homeschooling by parents who have committed offenses that would disqualify them from teaching school, requiring that students be assessed annually by trained mandatory reporters, and flagging certain at-risk children (such as those in families with a history of child protective services involvement) for additional protections and support. CRHE also recommends requiring a high school degree or GED for the primary homeschooling parent, instruction in the same subjects as public schools, maintenance of academic records, and assessments of annual progress with interventions in case of inadequate progress, among other recommendations.

With Shiny Happy People, Amazon Prime exposed the abuse and neglect hiding behind the happy facade that the Duggar family presented through its reality shows. But unfortunately the series did not let watchers know how we can protect today’s homeschooled children from such maltreatment by increasing regulation and oversight. I wish the series had ended by urging viewers to contact their state legislators and urge them to mandate reasonable regulation and oversight for homeschooling, so that no more children will be victimized.

Notes

1. Presentation by James Dwyer, Homeschooling Summit, Harvard University, June 2021. See https://childwelfaremonitor.org/2021/07/06/homeschooling-harvard-conference-highlights-need-for-regulation/
2. In Federal Fiscal Years 2020 and 2021, teachers lost their top ranking as maltreatment reporters to legal and law enforcement personnel due to Covid-19 school closures. It is my guess that they will gain it back in 2022.
3. There actually already was a fire inspection requirement for schools with 6 or more children, but there was no record that the Turpin home had been inspected.